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July 20, 2023

Declaration of the Reinstatement of Donald John Trump!

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“When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature’s God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation. We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness.    Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn, that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable, than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security”

      Whereas, We the People, have witnessed endless offenses against our duly elected president by its own government,                                       

     Whereas, We the People, have witnessed and seen proven massive voter fraud perpetrated against our duly elected leader’s incumbency,                                             

      Whereas, We the People, have  seen proven abuses against our elected leader while in office and while running for office in 2016 and in 2020, conducted by our very own DOJ, FBI, and other unelected bureaucrats ,working with  the news media and social media abusing our trust in these institutions,                                     

     Whereas, We the People have seen documented proof of voter fraud, ballot stuffing, illegally altering votes through voting machine tallies, altering voting laws, and other flagrant abuses against the integrity of our 2020 election and the trueness of our vote!

     Whereas, these concerns  were all brought to our government in the proper constituted manner and we were denied our rights to freely examine our votes state by state,                                                                                Whereas, We the People , have even been indicted, persecuted, and silenced for standing up and voicing our concerns against these and many other atrocities,                   

     Whereas, our duly elected leader, has been mercilessly persecuted by our very own government for simply doing what he was elected to do and conforming to the will of the people, His civil rights have been grossly violated in unending ways!                                                                                 

     Whereas, tthis doubt to the actual genuineness of our election has led to an unelected  leader who has not conformed to the laws of our government, and has continually ignored our constitution and the desires of our founders by repeated atrocities against our democracy and the will of the people, i.e. against our border laws, against our sovereignty as a nation, by abandoning military equipment allowing our enemies to retrieve this vital military weaponry, handing over a strategic air base to China, engaging in activities that could lead to World War III,  housing illegally obtained classified documents, receiving monies from foreign powers,  cocaine abuse in the White House, debauchery, and other extremely concerning atrocities not fitting of a president!

      We the People demand our duly elected president, Donald John Trump, be reinstated, as he fulfilled his duties as our president against all matter of evil thwarted against him, and natural, ordained, and constitutional processes were not followed.  Statistical trends in voting collected for decades clearly show Donald John Trump was the elected leader in the 2020 race! Therefore, We the People ask the full powers of the presidency be given to Donald John Trump and removed from the falsely named president,  Joe Biden! Biden should be swiftly removed along with judges and leaders appointed by him, as well as, laws he enforced be ripped from our system  for they were not the elected will of the people! Our duly elected president should be given 4 years to serve out his term beginning January 6, 2024.  No new election is required because the election was stolen from him!

Signed, We the People

July 10, 2021

Becoming One – Two Shall Become One Flesh

Becoming One 7-Day Marriage Devotional 

Genesis 2:24 “For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh.” 

Matthew 19:5 “and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” 

Mark 10:8 “and the two shall become one flesh; so they are no longer two, but one flesh.” 

Ephesians 5:31 “For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” 

Day 1

Meditate on Mark 10:8. The word “one” denotes ONENESS in such a way that others are excluded. Do you always think about your spouse as the same as yourself in your thoughts, your actions, your soul, or in your choices? Ask the Lord to help you see your spouse as a very part of your body as if your spouse equals you.  Forget the psychologists who try to call some forms of oneness, codependence. Ask the Lord to strip away all worldly ideas on marriage and make a decision today to be truly one with your mate. Ask the Lord for grace on this journey and make a commitment to discover what He means by becoming one.

Day 2 

 Meditate on Genesis 2:24. If you and your spouse are one, there should be no division when it comes to walking out your values. Talk about your thoughts on ethical matters and make sure they align with His Word. Repent for any disunity you have had due to continuing unethical thinking contrary to His Holy Word. Ask Him to help you become truly one.

Day 3 

Look in the mirror. Meditate on James 1:23-25 “For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks at his natural face in a mirror, for once he has looked at himself and gone away, he has immediately forgotten what kind of person he was. But one who looks intently at the perfect law, the law of liberty and abides by it not having become a forgetful hearer but an effectual doer this man will be blessed in what he does.”

Are you seeing yourself as one with your spouse, completely united at the hip? Are you taking the same care of your spouse as yourself or as your own body? Do you want to be a doer of HIs Word? There are no options. You are one flesh! Proceed accordingly! Decide to remember who you are in Christ and who  you are pertaining to your spouse every time you look into a mirror.

Day 4 

Meditate on Ephesians 5:31. One also means to be united most closely in will, and spirit; a single, one thing exclusive of the rest; one and the same; primarily one; the same in importance and esteem.

Write a list of things that you seem to be completely one in, as well as, a list of things you are not. Take that list and share it with one another. Decide to decimate the things that divide you, and begin to enhance the things that make you one. If we truly want to follow Christ, is this a choice? 

Day 5

One flesh is our goal only because the Lord commanded this for us. Meditate on Ephesians 5:22-32 “Wives, submit to your own husbands as to the Lord for the husband is head of the wife as also Christ is head of the church and He is the Savior of the body. Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her that He might sanctify and cleanse her with washing of water by the word that He might present her to Himself a glorious church not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy without blemish. So, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. For we are members of His body of His flesh and His bones. For this reason, a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife and the two shall become one flesh. This is a great mystery but I speak concerning Christ and the church.”

How are you aligning with His plan for marriage? Repent for any way you have been dishonoring His Word! Make a list of ways you can help one another restore, reclaim, and recover all the Lord wants for your marriage.  Give this the importance His Word demands. 

Day 6 

Our flesh can be defined as the part that can be stripped off from the bone; the soft substance of living body which covers the bones and is permeated with blood; animal nature with its cravings which incite our physical nature and can be subject to suffering sin.

How deeply do you see yourself as one flesh? Are you experiencing in your own body your spouse’s sufferings? Are you fighting  as if it were you going through whatever the circumstance?  If we are truly one flesh, we should find their experiences ours, the same pains, the same hurts, and the same joys! We can also appropriate by faith the extraordinary saving results of the violent death endured by Christ our Savior for one another.  Becoming one is becoming inter-dependent, shutting he door on any opposition from the enemy of our souls. If His blood truly permeates us, will we allow Him, the Word become flesh to rule every aspect of our lives? 

 Day 7

Meditate on these: “Let thy husband render to the wife due benevolence and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife has no power over her own body but the husband, and likewise also the husband has no power of his own body but the wife.” This is found in 1 Corinthians 7: 3-4.  “Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge giving honor to the wife as to the weaker vessel and as being heirs together of the grace of God that your prayers be not hindered.” (1 Peter 3:7)

These are profound Scriptures! Are His Words merely suggestions, or are His Words our commands?  How are you measuring up to His commandments? Plan together how to bring your marriage in order under His truth. Decree: “We are becoming One!” 

 Decide to continue this 7-day prayer focus until His Word becomes flesh within. Ask the Lord to give you your own Scriptures to expand on. 

 “May the God who gives this patience and encouragement help you live in complete harmony with one another as is fitting for followers of Christ Jesus so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Romans 15:6  Amen! He has provided all we need to become one flesh!

July 3, 2019

Devotional Cheshvan 20, 5780

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He Is Our God Who Sees – El Roi 

The Lord reminded me of a song He had me write years ago. Though I never made it to a worship team nor did I become a well-known songwriter; it is humbling and amazing that my little song mattered to God. We must use our gifts whatever they are because He is watching and they abundantly matter to Him. His Love is something we do not want to miss out on! 

Genesis 16:13?Then she called the name of the?Lord?who spoke to her, “You are?God Who Sees”; for she said, “Have I not even here [in the wilderness] remained alive after?[seeing Him [who sees me with understanding and compassion]?” 

1 Corinthians 10:31 “So then whether you eat or drink or whatever you do all to the glory of our great God. 

 When I was just a little girl I looked up in the sky; I knew why I was created, I was created for You! But then, I followed a path I made my own, I didn’t look up for every pathways shown, I didn’t bow my knee in everything to my precious King. Then I remembered, why I was created, I was created for You. I tried to tell them I said too much. I pushed them from you because I wanted them so much to know they were created for you too. I tried to reach them I sought still. I tried to tell them, I still will, You are our Father, we are Yours. We were created for You. So many things warring for their love. If they could look up, look up above. Then they could see it, what I could finally see, we were created for our King. When I look up in the sky I know why I was created. I was created for You! 

Write your song, poem, or letter to Him today. 

November 22, 2018

Revised Cookbook

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This pdf file link above is the official revised edition of the original text published in 2010. We trust it will bring you and your family much enjoyment, lead you into deeper celebrations with our Savior, and open an amazing door into the abounding blessings that are ours in Christ.

Charleen and Michael Ecuyer

March 1, 2017

Highway of Holiness

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October 1, 2015

Stargate Birthday Party

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Planning a Stargate Party can be great fun for you and your guests.

Stargate Birthday Menu:
Carter’s Jello: Various colors of jello cut into squares
Jack’s Fish & Beer: Goldfish and ginger ale in cans
Hammond’s Ham: Baked ham with pineapples
Daniel’s Archaeological Find: Shrimp and cocktail sauce served in an unusual bowl-ancient looking
Teal’s Staffs: Stick Pretzels dipped in chocolate                                                                       Stargate birthday cake: Bake the cake of your choice in rounded cake pans.  Frost as usual. For top create a border that looks like a Stargate adding blue jello for the center.

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Games:

1. Create stargate at front or back door. With cardboard for a rim and black plastic inside this can be a fun project for the party goers or party planners whichever you choose.

2. Alter reality game
This is great fun but you have to cue party goers before hand. Tell everyone attending the party about the game. Have everyone in the game pretend the birthday girl or boy is in another reality. Choose a new name, favorite foods, games, likes and dislikes for your birthday girl or boy and have the time of your life as they try to figure out what is happening. After that, put alter reality-identities in a hat and let each one take turns playing various identities in alternate realities.

3. Stargate capture the flag stargateflag
Make special “stargate flags” and territories and take turns capturing the flags. Use art paper or material and have teams draw stargates creating a flag. Use these for the game when finished.

4. Fishing with Jack. Make a fishing pond and fishing poles. Place some black plastic on the floor in the shape of a pond. Create fishing poles with rods, string, and paperclips. Cut out fish and put magnets on them. Put numbers for prizes on fish and enjoy the fun.

5. Watch stargate season 1. http://www.amazon.com/Stargate-SG-1-Richard-Dean-Anderson/dp/B000F8O2Q0/ref=sr_1_14?ie=UTF8&qid=1442838582&sr=8-14&keywords=stargate

 

July 20, 2015

Are We Believers?

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truebelieversMark 9:23 And Jesus said, [You say to Me], If You can do anything? [Why,] all things can be (are possible) to him who believes!

We call ourselves “Believers”, but do our actions show others that is who we are?

Yesterday, I woke up at about 3:00 a.m., and couldn’t go back to sleep. I had been blessed with watching 2 of my precious grandchildren for a week, and I really needed some sleep:)

It was as if the Lord was prodding me with questions, and I continued with more questions for myself. Am I really a “BELIEVER”? I think I have faith for anything, but what am I truly believing?

If with God all things are possible, am I always believing for the impossible?

Why are my sheep mostly believing the worst is ahead for the United States? Did My Son die in vain? Can I not turn the heart of the King? Did not Israel get the King they wanted which was not in My heart?

Does anyone really believe every jot and tittle of My Word? If I say it, can I not do it? Numbers 23:19 “God is not a man, that He should tell or act a lie, neither the son of man, that He should feel repentance or compunction [for what He has promised]. Has He said and shall He not do it? Or has He spoken and shall He not make it good?

If these are the signs which follow those who believe, Mark 16:17 “And these attesting signs will accompany those who believe: in My name they will drive out demons; they will speak in new languages;18 They will pick up serpents; and [even] if they drink anything deadly, it will not hurt them; they will lay their hands on the sick, and they will get well.” Am I really a believer?

Aren’t we supposed to be doing the works Jesus did and even greater? John 14:12 “I assure you, most solemnly I tell you, if anyone steadfastly believes in Me, he will himself be able to do the things that I do; and he will do even greater things than these, because I go to the Father.13 And I will do [I Myself will grant] whatever you ask in My Name [as [a]presenting all that I Am], so that the Father may be glorifiedand extolled in (through) the Son.14 [Yes] I will grant [I Myself will do for you] whatever you shall ask in My Name [as [b]presenting all that I Am].”

Wasn’t it in Nazareth that no miracles occurred because of unbelief? Matthew 13: 54 “And coming to His own country [Nazareth], He taught in their synagogue so that they were amazed with bewildered wonder, and said, Where did this [Man get this wisdom and these miraculous powers? 55 Is not this the carpenter’s Son? Is not His mother called Mary? And are not His brothers James and Joseph and Simon and Judas? 56 And do not all His sisters live here among us? Where then did this Man get all this?57 And they took offense at Him [they were repelled and hindered from acknowledging His authority, and caused to stumble]. But Jesus said to them, A prophet is not without honor except in his own country and in his own house.58 And He did not do many works of power there, because of their unbelief (their lack of faith in the divine mission of Jesus)”

Are we really Believers, or mostly doubters? Do we believe the enemy’s lies more than Our Heavenly Father’s paid in full promises– Jesus, His Word become flesh?

With all my heart I do believe there is nothing too difficult for Our God! I really believe Jesus paid in full, not only for my sin, but for an abundantly life, and days of heaven on earth. I believe by His wounds we are healed! I believe His shalom is ours, our children s and bloodline’s, and it is ours to give.” Shalom means completeness, wholeness, health, peace, welfare, safety soundness, tranquility, prosperity, perfectness, fullness, rest, harmony, the absence of agitation or discord. Shalom comes from the root verb shalom meaning to be complete, perfect and full. In modern Hebrew the obviously related word Shelem means to pay for, and Shulam means to be fully paid.

This is the Hebrew month of AV (God’s calendar) when the Israelites could have entered the promised land, but instead let unbelief and fear of giants postpone their blessings.This cycle has continued in Israel. Especially, in this month may we do all that is required to rise up in faith like an army with banners! (Thank you, Glory of Zion!)

Forgive us Father!, To the best of my ability, I do believe (believe, put in trust with.From pistis; to have faith (in, upon, or with respect to, a person or thing), i.e. Credit; by implication, to entrust (especially one’s spiritual well-being to Christ) — believe(-r), commit (to trust), put in trust with.) You and Your forever settled in heaven Holy Word! May my mind, my will, and my emotions always align with this truth! You will find faith on the earth when you return! The Body of Christ will rise up in faith and please you. All things are possible with you! I refuse to allow one thought that tries to think otherwise. May your glorious bride rise up in faith and totally please you every second! In Your precious Son’s name, I pray!

August 27, 2014

This Day We Fight!

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We cannot sit idly and let this country founded on His principles became a wasteland for the devil's work!  Make your appeal: anappealtoheavenflag.com

We cannot sit idly by and let this country which was founded on His principles became a wasteland for the devil’s work! Make your appeal: anappealtoheavenflag.com

Will we stand up and fight and war and do all that is so very necessary for such a time as this? Luke 10:19 “Look, I have given you authority over all the power of the enemy, and you can walk among snakes and scorpions and crush them. Nothing will injure you.”


I have been extremely thankful for the amazing teachings I have been blessed to hear regarding
the authority we have in Christ over all the work of the enemy. Through knowing and exercising this authority, I have seen marriages renewed, people healed, prayers answered, our state shift, doors open, children rescued, lives restored, blessings come forth, miracles happen, and so much more. God is so extremely faithful! Yet, I have so much to learn, and have also experienced failure in this area many times in the past.When I was a new born-again Christian, the enemy seriously ate my lunch. By the Lord’s grace I have gained prowess.
Months ago, when I received two traffic tickets within a few weeks time, I felt like the Lord began speaking to me about “going to war” over something as relatively non important as this. I believe He told me in His own very beautiful way, to fight the tickets because they were clearly an assault from the enemy. Instead of doing exactly that, with the first ticket, I paid the fine rather than doing some simple tasks to fight it, and keep it off my record.

I knew in my heart that the Lord wanted me to fight these tickets, and keep my record clean. I was upset that I hadn’t obeyed Him, because I really do try to obey whatever I believe He is saying to me. As I sought Him, I heard the Lord remind me that the enemy will attempt to change laws and times. Daniel 7:25 “And he shall speak great words against the most High, and shall wear out the saints of the most High, and think to change times and laws:”….Guess we all can attest to knowing very well that the enemy’s plan is to wear us out, but we also can testify that our Father in Heaven has given us victory and every key needed to overcome through Jesus.With the second ticket, I knew I had to obey. I fought it in every way I could through faith, standing on His Word, doing what I had to do practically, and going to court multiple times even though it was a far distance. It was totally dismissed without any consequence. This whole event has its own special testimony of how cunning the enemy is, and how God works what the enemy means for evil for good, but for another day!

Israel should be for us a perfect example for the need to fight. What a beautiful amazing country that has had to fight every step of the way to fulfill its destiny, and yet it has always been the apple of God’s eye. I am sure they would like the option of resting, and forgetting the warring day by day. They live under a constant threat of war, and a simple drive to the grocery could mean running to a bomb shelter before getting to the checkout line. Thank you God, for blessing and protecting Israel!

Fighting isn’t something that just comes naturally to many of us. I think most of us, especially Christians, don’t like fighting at all. This fact has made us seem extremely passive-almost pushovers. It is possible that with many of us, there can even be a tendency to just give up when things get kind of hard. We must remember that we, like Israel, must war. We are warriors, patriots, Davids- all fighting our Goliaths on behalf of our King! (Even David suffered gravely when he chose not to war.) Truly with a warrior mindset we will recover all, and always triumph. I believe God put this ability deep within our DNA!

Song of Solomon 6:4 “You are as beautiful as Tirzah, my darling, as lovely as Jerusalem, As awesome as an army with banners.”

We don’t have to look very far to see the enemy raging against us, and those we love. Will we choose to go to war against him, or will we let what Jesus did be completely for naught?
I love this quote from The Return of the King.
The Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King (2003)
Aragorn: “Hold your ground; hold your ground…my brothers! I see in your eyes the same fear that would take the heart of me. A day may come when the courage of men fails, when we forsake our friends and break all bonds of fellowship, but it is not this day. An hour of wolves and shattered shields, when the age of men comes crashing down! But it is not this day! This day we fight! By all that you hold dear on this good Earth, I bid you *stand, Men of the West!*

 

October 5, 2013

Our Ministry To Men Knows That Men Are Under Attack

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helpinghandchristianmenOur online ministry to men is called the Courageous Men’s Destiny Teams. This is a ministry of men that was formed to make ministry for men easily available. This men’s outreach was formed to help guys deal with the attacks that are specifically targeted to take them down. I will explain exactly what these areas are and how these attacks can be successfully handled so that Christian men can fulfill their destinies in Christ.

What Do Men Need Most in a Ministry To Men?

It is critical that men win the war that is being waged against them. It is also very important that men realize that they need the support and prayer protection of other Godly men to be victorious.

What Is This War About That Our Ministry To Men Can Help With?

There are 7 specific fronts that men are being engaged in so that they will be rendered useless or ineffective in fulfilling their role as a man. As I ask questions related to each of these 7 areas, you will mostly likely find them to be struggles that you are very familiar with.

1) Do you have any clue what your destiny is in Christ or are you not making any progress towards realizing your calling in life?

Fulfilling your God-given destiny is the secret to your happiness in life. When you are not making progress in this area, you will likely have struggles with discouragement and maybe even depression. It is at this point that many men start taking risks and making poor decisions that end up hurting those who are closest to them. Men will also look for quick ways to be gratified, which usually brings them further away from their destiny in life. There are typically no shortcuts in realizing your true destiny in life.

2) Do you find that you have trouble being honest or living up to your committments?

This area of attack has to do with your integrity and your ability to be trusted. We see countless events in the news about men who have engaged in corrupt business dealings and even pastors who have left their wives for a younger woman. God puts tremendous value in our level of honesty and in honoring our committments. While two of the deadly consequences of losing this battle are divorce and fatherless children, the ultimate expression of this defeat is walking away from the Lord.

3) Do you feel constant stress in the area of your finances and ability to provide for your family’s needs?

One aspect of the way that God wired men has to do with being challenged in the area of business or commerce. Every man I know has a desire, sometimes it’s hidden, to operate their own business and be successful. It is an entrepreneur spirit that came from the command to be fruitful and multiply and take dominion of your surroundings. The world has twisted this Godly adventure into a path of greed and stress and selfishness and fear that can consume a man. Operating a business or starting your own business is an honorable undertaking, but your motivation and committmentt to Godly business practices are a must.

4) Do you find yourself avoiding opportunities to provide direction and leadership for your wife and children?

With the super fast pace of life that we all enjoy these days, it can become a habit that we spend our time just trying to react to situations around us instead of seeking God’s plan. These days you really can’t just have a family. To have a successful marriage and raise children that learn responsibility and respect Godly values, you must have a vision for family life and a strategy to follow. A very important aspect of this is spiritual growth. Families cannot afford to continue to ignore this part of family life and the men need to step up to provide this through their example and through times of worship and instruction in the home, even if these times are brief.

5) Is your private time with the Lord superficial and your time spent in God’s Word passionless or non-existent?

The source of success and walking in the overcoming grace of the Lord can only come from your personal times of connecting with the Lord in His Word, in prayer, in worship, and in service. We cannot allow the demands of a career or the busy band and soccer schedules to push aside these vital times of closeness with Jesus. This can be rather challenging much of the time, but we must learn how to give Christ first place in our lives. The rewards are too great to measure.

6) Do you struggle with being tempted in viewing images of bikini or lingerie models or naked women?

This battle has to do with your purity of heart and will have destructive results for both married and single men. Pornography is a major destiny buster and is powerful enough to stop you dead in your tracks. Recent surveys are showing that over 80% of men have engaged in this activity and are not successful in tempting this demeaning temptation. The internet is overflowing with this filth and it is difficult to go anywhere without being confronted with these images on billboards, cable TV, and even magazines in the grocery line. Pornography is a plague that is destroying the lives of both men and women and it is time to take a stand against it.

7) Do you avoid chances to spend quality time with other Christian men and resist being held accountable?

It seems that women naturally look for companionship and comfort from other women. Men typically view this as a weakness and choose to stay isolated from their brothers in Christ to a certain degree. Generally men also avoid allowing themselves to be held accountable by other men. Again, men usually have great difficulty in sharing the areas of weakness that they struggle with. As a result, men tend to get sacked for big losses by desires and temptations that are destructive. We can longer allow these losses to keep piling up because our families and our destinies will suffer the consequences. It will be very tough to hear:”Well done, good and faithful servant”, unless we invite the accountability of our brothers in Christ and get involved in some type of Christian ministry.

I know that you are seeing yourself in these seven areas above. You don’t have to stand alone any longer. I invite you to find out exactly what our Courageous Men’s Destiny ministry teams can do for you. This ministry to men is here to give you a vehicle to support you on your journey to your destiny in the Lord.

Mike Ecuyer

September 14, 2013

To Adopt or Not to Adopt, There is Only One Question

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To adopt or not to adopt. There is only one question:  ” Is  it  God’s desire for me, or my family to be a hiding place for a child in need?”

 

“And here I felt a strange leaping of my heart…. My job was to simply follow His leading one step at a time, holding every decision up to him in prayer.” Corrie  ten Boom, The Hiding Place

I am reminded of Corrie ten Boom and her family in the days when the Jews were so severely persecuted by the Nazis. When the Lord was confirming his will to my husband and I regarding adoption,  we sat watching The Hiding Place.

 If you haven’t seen it, please rent it.  It is a riveting film of Corrie ten Boom,  and her family’s beautiful self-sacrificing  lifestyle, as the Lord used them to save many Jews.

 I can  hear the words of her sister when asked why she would be involved in such an endeavor, “Truthfully, I’d rather do anything else. I’d like to close the door and never open it again until this whole hideous thing is over, but that’s me. My Lord Jesus tells me to open the door to whatever comes, to give His love in whatever ways I can. And I will listen to His voice, not mine.” Betsie ten Boom, The Hiding Place

Seek His will for your family first.  If He is leading you to adopt, He will confirm it in exceedingly abundant ways.

Years ago the Lord began  enlarging my heart in ways I didn’t understand at the time concerning adoption.  The first time my husband and I had a strange young boy stay with us for the weekend, it completely stressed me way beyond my comfort zone.

Michael felt this troubled boy could benefit by being out of his situation for a few days, and wondered if I would be willing to share our home with him.  Have you ever felt the Lord’s stretching?

First, let me back up just a bit.

Before I met my husband, Michael, an amazing man of God in every way, I thought I knew everything about the Lord.  Michael had been moved by the Lord to forsake all and follow Him into the field of social work.

He remains today,  a man totally sold out to hearing and obeying the Lord’s voice. The Lord began using him to help me see all of the  riches of my relationship with the Lord still to be unlocked.

He was already fathering  my two precious sons from a previous marriage, and with all of his heart was attempting to be a most perfect father to them.  They were suffering greatly from the divorce, and it was terrible to watch.

Let’s get back to the young man I first mentioned.  All I kept thinking about was our two older sons, and how much discomfort they would be experiencing. Hadn’t they gone through enough? How could I put them through added trauma? I knew my only choice was to obey the Lord.

To my surprise, it really didn’t seem to bother them very much at all. I learned so much from having this young man stay with us, about his life, and his culture.  This experience was such a great blessing, and I believe it was good for our family. I almost missed it because of my silly fears.

After the divorce from a previous marriage, I became a born-again Christian, but I had so much to learn.

The Lord’s ever-present help was my only salvation.  His word became my food!  The enemy came at me hard, and at that time, I had no clue about the authority Jesus gave us over all of his work.

Therefore, I became the enemy’s victim, and watched him separate me from my two older sons in ways I never could have imagined.  It was devastating, and I  seriously didn’t think I could make it.

As is always the goodness of the Lord,  He took what the enemy meant for evil and used it for my good.  He enlarged my heart to adoption, and gently took me step by step into blessings I would have missed if I had closed my heart off, and shut the door on His provision.  I was no longer living on bread alone, but on every word that proceeds from the mouth of my God.

“Do you know what hurts so very much? It’s love. Love is the strongest force in the world, and when it is blocked that means pain. There are two things we can do when this happens. We can kill that love so that it stops hurting. But then of course part of us dies, too. Or we can ask God to open up another route for that love to travel.” Corrie ten Boom, The Hiding Place

I am so very thankful to the Lord for giving me another route for that love to travel.  His blessings of  birth children and  adopted children, each are  a gift, exceedingly abundantly above all I could ever ask or imagine!

Once you have discovered His will, take the next steps He gives. Be sure you are completely saturated by His Holy Spirit who enables us to do all things.

“Trying to do the Lord’s work in your own strength is the most confusing, exhausting, and tedious of all work. But when you are filled with the Holy Spirit, then the ministry of Jesus just flows out of you.” Corrie ten Boom

Counting the cost is a must before you adopt.  Going in, you must realize there may be some adjustments you may have to make, and some sacrificing that will be required.  Never go in blindly.  Ask the Lord to prepare you, and know He is going to make you more than able.

There are no ‘if’s’ in God’s kingdom. His timing is perfect. And no places that are safer than other places. The center of His will is our only safety. His will is our hiding place. Let us pray that we may always know it. “Lord Jesus, keep me in Your will. ”  Corrie ten Boom

Truthfully, until just recently, I haven’t wanted to share much about my adoption experiences.  I love each child so much, and wanted them to be protected.  I have been upset when people would ask if they were all my birth children.  I have hidden them in a hiding place of sorts. I thought it was for them, but I realized it was mostly for me.

Just like the Jews were eventually able to come out from hiding, I am feeling the Lord tugging at me  to share our  testimony so others may know the extreme benefits to enjoy through adoption.

Am I trying to say that adoption can be equated with the  dangerous, self sacrificial beauty of the ten Boom family, not at all.  What I am saying, the need is just as great.

My prayer for you is that you will know His love, know His will, and you will follow His voice.  Ask the Lord, “Am I to be a hiding place for a child needing a family?”

Galatians 4:4-6  “But when the right time came, God sent his Son, born of a woman, subject to the law. God sent him to buy freedom for us who were slaves to the law, so that he could adopt us as his very own children. And because we are his children, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, prompting us to call out, “Abba, Father.”

 

 

 

 

 

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